If you are being defamed, to end it someone must stand up to defend you, and anyone who does so may be risking his or her life to do so. Defending someone who is being defamed is not easy.
Consider John Adams defending the English soldiers who were targeted during the Boston Massacre. Or, Jesus when he was betrayed, and Peter declared he didn't know him three times. Our organization is defending Saddam Hussein because there were no WMD, and it appears that he was attempting to comply with UN sanctions. Even so, many people think the world is better off without him. Rama defended Sita from Ravanna, and the story is told in the Ramayana.
Who will do it? The person who will defend you is someone who can speak from personal experience, and shares the same goal as you, or else that individual can reinforce the power game.
The solution is our Conflict Resolution brochures. Your best advocate is your lifepartner, someone who has the same goal,. Each of you has a vocation and an advocation, and one's vocation is the other's avocation. You mentor each other.
You help to get the other's children back again, after a hostile divorce, which progressed through the Battles of Armageddon, and left the children on the proverbial bridge with no foundation to get their life.
